The power of servanthood commands respect. It does not demand it.
Jesus never forced anyone to follow him, and he doesn’t expect his followers to use high-pressure tactics to attract disciples.
Stop! Right now! Take a deep breath in and exhale. Remind yourself that you are loved, you are cherished, you have value. Remind yourself that nothing that anyone does or thinks or says to you will diminish that value. Remind yourself that every person you meet today is loved by God just as much as you are and is worthy of respect and is worthy of being seen as a person of value. Now continue to make decisions today based on those truths.
Many Christians fall into the trap of giving advice to someone who was only asking for prayer. If you resist that urge, you build trust. By honouring their request, you leave the door open for them to approach you for advice if that is what they later seek.